it seems so strange to me that the only people it is socially acceptable to live with (once you reach a certain stage in life) are sexual partners? like why can’t i live with my best friend? why can’t i raise a child with them? why do i need to have sex with someone in order to live with them? why do we put certain relationships on a pedestal? why don’t we value non-sexual relationships enough? why do life partners always have to be sexual partners?
honestly if gansey isn’t introduced on screen the exact way he is introduced on page (standing next to his busted ass glorious car on the side of the road, holding up an old school tape recorder like he’s dale cooper, on the phone whining about needing a cheeseburger with no pickles, with “edge of seventeen” blaring from the speakers), i’m gonna be pissed
